The Essential Oil Juicy Guide for the Stressful Mom

“Essential oil for stress relief? Do you even believe that?” That was my reaction when I was searching for stress relief and depression solutions. Yup, it’s me the one who doesn’t believe such things and judge books from the covers “not anymore”.

Well if you are new to my blog then I should probably tell you that I’m a single mom and stress with depression was turning my days into total darkness. But as much depressed as I was, I tried my best to lift my mood and live a happy life.

In this post, you read about single mothers struggles and how to solve them

I searched online for many things and methods, they said: food, essential oils, and physical activities. I knew that my parents and family were suffering watching me depressed and down most of the time. My kids needed me and with my troubled mood, things weren’t easy.

I’ve done my best and searched, tried and applied methods to feel better. Things worked great and things weren’t showing the actual change.

But in the end, we all know that not everything applies to everyone, and effects show varied levels on different people. But hey, whatever doesn’t work for you will not kill you.

Nevertheless, these solutions are for early and mid-stages of depression, help stress, and exhaustion. I’m not a doctor so if you need extra help medically, you should probably consult a doctor.

Also, this post contains a method that might affect the breathing system if you have medical issues.

Now then let’s start by figuring out the problem and find the solution.

What is putting you off and depressing you?

Well If you are facing problems as a single mother, or any mother, or working ….etc you should first know the cause and try to solve it.

We are overdoing things

When we do things exceedingly and pour our energy into it, we fear failure or seek perfection.

For example: Trying to make our kids have full marks at school. We buy resources, search online for studying method, looking for recipes to boost thinking and memorizing ….etc. When the kid doesn’t have a mark, we wanted we get depressed and we feel everything we did didn’t pay off.

As a result, we get stressed and depressed.

We do things without rest

It’s related to the point above, when we overdo things or do things without rest we end up stressed and overwhelmed.

This exhaust our minds and feelings.

We deal with everything as if it was the end of the world

I’m not gonna act perfect, but don’t you sometimes overthink something and imagine a negative result then let it grow in your head?

After growing, You get stressed and depressed as if the world is ending and there isn’t a solution?

Whoever does that raise your hands? <<< Raising both hands.

We don’t express to others what bothers us

It’s nice to care about others’ feelings but the closer they are, the more care you should have. And there isn’t anyone closer to you than yourself.

If something upsets you then talk about it, don’t swallow negativity, you’re not a sponge.

I don’t encourage you to be rude but also you should open up and stop being afraid of losing others on the cost of your mental health.

So, Where do essential oils stand in all of this?

Essential oils are the free hugs whenever you are stressed, depressed, ill….etc.

Not totally free if you buy them lol

But let’s start but getting to know some of the benefits of essential oils.

They are used in healing stress and depression

Essential oils are well known for healing to depress and stress since ancient times.

Imagine yourself in a spa with a candlelit and the aroma of the essential oils around.

How would you feel?

There are many methods to use them

As for someone going through stress and depression, methods of using these oils differ and those methods will meet your abilities in one way or another.

You can defuse, inhale, shower, scrub, …etc the essential oils “will put up some combo and recipes”

So regardless of how you can use them, you will end up being able to use them.

Not all essential oils are expensive

I’m not going to mention certain brands and promote them, I actually just search and buy. As long as they are 100% essential oils then I’m good

And for that, I take some budget-friendly types.

In case you feel low on cash, this side hustle guide for moms will drag you up of your depression and worries

They are cheaper than medical sessions.

Going to medical sessions to relief your stress or cure your depression would be costly. But using essential oils will save you lots of money.

How can you use these essential oils?


You can use essential oils by diffusing the oil using diffusers

You can use an electric diffuser or the one with a candle.

A few drops with carrier oil will change your mood completely.


Adding a few drops in the water tub and sitting in the water for 30 minutes or more will relax your body, relief your stress and help with depression.

Inhale directly

You can add a few drops of the essential oil on your palm, cup your face with this palm and inhale.


It’s a substitute to diffusers but as a candle maker, I noticed that in candles we need to add more essential oils because they are natural, and the candle needs plenty to show up the scent.

Or try this method if you want something to carry around or put next to your pillow

DIY Sachet

What are the top essential oils used for depression and stress relief?

 Lavender essential oil

The kind of relaxation. Have you ever heard the word “Lavender” and didn’t think of relaxing immediately?

Lavender is one of the essential oils that’ve been used since ancient Roman times. There was a study that lavender essential oil helps with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

Ylang Ylang Essential Oil

Extracted from the flower petals of the tropical ylang-ylang tree.

It can curb the negative thoughts associated with depression.

If it wasn’t that effective, why else would Chanel use it in their famous perfume No.5??

Grapefruit Essential Oil

Excellent oil for alleviating mental exhaustion and fatigue.

Its intense citrus scent helps to elevate low moods and energize both the mind and the body

Grapefruit oil is proven to improve immune function.

Sandalwood Essential Oil

Close your eyes and imagine with me “You’re in the woods with nice breeze touching your skin and the smell of the wood whenever you inhale calms your mind”

Imagine having the feeling in your house on the couch chilling.

You’ll often find it in incense, and it is great to diffuse when it helps increase mental clarity and focus.

The scent of the oil affects the brain’s limbic system and the oil is an excellent emotional balancer.

It’s known in helping you sleep and relax.

Clary sage essential oil

Clary sage essential oil promotes feelings of hopefulness,

 increases confidence and is a very uplifting oil.

Roman Chamomile Essential Oil

Think with me, when you go shopping for tea, and those different tea types on the shelf ask you to pick them up, which one has the relaxing word written on it?

BINGO, chamomile.

Roman chamomile oil has a floral, herbaceous scent and is well known for the calming effects it has on the mind and body

Geranium essential oil

Its rosy aroma offers positive reassurance

Offers a nourishing presence in skincare blends

Encourages when feeling down

Patchouli essential oil

Offers deep relaxation and peace

Soothes and nourishes the skin

Repels insects and calms bug bites

What are the best essential blends for stress relief and depression?

Those are some of the best blends, I tried some of them and found many others online that I’m willing to try.

Note: I didn’t make up these blends myself, I read about them online and wrote it down in my diary. After that, I tried them.

So, I’m sharing what I tried and worked.

Anti-Stress Blend

10 drops Sandalwood Essential Oil

4 drops Grapefruit Essential Oil

6 drops Patchouli Essential Oil

Mood-Lifting Blend

8 drops Grapefruit Essential Oil

5 drops Lavender Essential Oil

2 drops Geranium Essential Oil

Anti-Agitation Blend

10 drops Sandalwood Essential Oil

5 drops Grapefruit Essential Oil

3 drops Chamomile Essential Oil

Happy Mom

4 drops Patchouli

4 drops Grapefruit

2 drops Ylang Ylang

Super Mom

4 drops Grapefruit

4 drops Ylang Ylang

3 drops Clary sage

•  Always use a carrier oil when applying essential oils topically.

•  Always do a patch test before applying to your skin.

• Always buy 100% pure essential oils from a reputable source.

• Never take essential oils by mouth unless told to do so by a healthcare professional. Many oils are toxic.

How about you tell me what essential oils blends you used and helped you chill?

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